"Friends in need, is a friend indeed". But how do we noe this is really a friend?for me, my conscious is clear in helping a friend whenever i can. but a recent incident let me hav 2nd tot, are all friend worth helping?wat happen if u help a friend and the friend just take for granted? or worse, demand more.

i have a friend of more than 5 yrs, A, close friend, sum may say. althou this friend hav flaws, many... all friend accepted A, flaws and all. not that we din tell A of her flaws, but A think she hav reasons for everything, thus a change in her behavior is not needed.

Actually, A is not bad, quite caring atually. Just that trouble-maker mouth and the everything-i-right attitute that lowers A popularity.

recently see an ugly side of A, make me wonder if close friend is define this way. some time i think it must be the giving in attitute we give that turn the situation this way.
but thinking further, she always reason in a way that u can't not give in. maybe it's the way she persist that make one so frustrated that one just want to end it. anything will do. so long s A stop.

Anyway, i hav quit thinking how to deal with A liao. hav lotsa better thing to do anyway...

Yoyo hav bcm a big flower face liao, from all the crying and "exploring" ard during CNY, time for a hair cut. she so poor thing, these few days keep rainin, she can't go for her walk.... 1/31/2004 11:45:00 AM
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it's the 2nd week of school, and we had all just come back from the Chinese New Year holiday. but this yr new yr so rainy, it strted on the 2nd day and rain till now!! the tutorial had started and it's so busy juggling homework, tuition and spenelli. i think i'll hav to let go of Spenelli later or sooner. this yr the workload quite heavy. but i'm reluctant to do so. at first i hate this job, but now kinda grow attach to it. luv the food and coffee there.. even the regular customer tat i've known and grew use to.... haiz... miss my caramel coffee with almond plait... yummy! 1/27/2004 09:40:00 PM
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Todai is the 1st day of school and it rain cats&dogs for the whole day!! :g Luckily i smart, buy umbrella frm heeren for $3. can use whole day...

Yesterday hubby giv me a surprise! he brought me to see a orchestra concert @esplanade! wat surprise me is not the concert, but the fact tat he's going to see a concert. i've never in my whole 3yrs with him see him as sum1 who will bring me to concert. so romantic!! althou it's just a casual concert, it's sumtink we've never done before and therefore, felt gd. (it's his 1st and my 3rd concert)it totally overshadow the quarrel we hav on Friday nite. (i cried the whole nite!) ='(

Yoyo was so restless the whole nite, even wake me up in the middle of the night... dunno wat's bothering her.... (*_*?) 1/19/2004 08:20:00 PM
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today finally rest liao, in fact, i just wake up frm my nap (^_^) last week was such a drag... working nearly everyday. by friday nite, i was dragging my legs home. Work so hard so tat i'll hav more $$$ to start school with, only to find out last min that the sch starts at 19 and not 13!! luckily able to cancel my leave and get Canice to squeeze me into the schedule. THKS CANICE!!! today spend with mama, helping to get ready for CNY, tml hav tuition class, then thurs will go out with hubby! who ponten tat nite.. naughty... finally get the LOTR bk frm Kenny, god, it's thicker than a dictionary!! dunno y i get myself into this mess... (-_-") 1/13/2004 03:53:00 PM
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1/13/2004 03:53:00 PM
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Finally finish working for this week. i din rest at all for this week, only off on Tue, but got to take yoyo for her grooming session, so din get to rest... then work 3day straight! yesterday i even work for 10hrs!! tired!!!! today really crawl through, time pass so slow at Spenelli! then my whole body aches like hell! (*-*)

yesterday weas a really bad day. work morning shift, so onli get 5hrs of sleep.
even 3cup of coffee fail to perk me up! did alot of mistake, so kana "praise" by marcus. he really very aunty ah!! (-_-") 1/09/2004 11:43:00 PM
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Today bring yoyo to alphapets for her grooming, take her on bus 169 in her doggy bag. but who noes the bus ride too long, she can't take it--n got car sick!! she throw up in her bag. (-_-") luckily she very xiaojie one, throw up on her towel n stil attempt to cover it up...

today while i was having lunch at home, yoyo did something tat amused me. i had left a biscuit on the kitchen floor for her earlier, when we 1st get back from grooming... she saw it, n went to get it. but on the way back to the living rm, she need to open the sml gate mum install to keep her out of the kitchen (no use! she noe how to use her paw & nose to open the gate. smart gal!) but with the biscuit in her mouth, she can onli use her paw, which did not help her to open the door. so she drop the biscuit n open the gate with her nose&paw. when the gate swing open, she went to pick up the biscuit, by the time she pick up the biscuit, the door had swing close again. (-_-") so, there she stand in front of the sml gate trying again n again to open the door, n pick up the biscuit fast enough before the door swing close. aft a few tries, she seem upset. i waited to see wat she'll do. i was expecting her to do sumting really smart. (she sumtimes do) like use her bum to keep the door open... but in the end, she call mummy for help (disappointed!) come to me whinning away... haiz... n there goes mummy to her rescue again...

it remind me of an article i once saw on a site: www.maltese-only.com
it's dedicate to all maltese lover. the article's title is how many dogs it take to chg a light bulb. inside it tell u abt all different breeds of dogs and their reaction to changing lightbulb. the maltese's reaction? --no worries, mummy will change it for me. 1/06/2004 05:59:00 PM
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today work morning shift, hav to wake up @530am again. so long nv wake so early, so sleepy... (-_-)zzz

now tat school had all started, suddenly the mornin train so crowded with students, really admire their energy... is it they hyper?or i'm old? but i had nv been hyper in the morn when i was their age! (which is not too long ago ^_^)
or should i say i look slightly better than a corpse evymorn... (-_-")

today work barista, marcus very lorsoh, comment my coffee not up to standard. HOW TO GIV STANDARD COFFEE WHEN I"M SO SLEEPY AND HOT!!! :g

1/05/2004 10:53:00 PM
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My computer kana virus again!!! Actually it's the same virus la, just tat las time nv clean properly, so now act up again. so mafan!! :g luckily now fix liao....stupid tanjon horse....

las nite we wen to one of the family close fren's hse. the grandson's 1st birthday. HAPPY BIRTHDAY XAVIER!!! =) tat kid so cute... but too active (-_-")

today stay at home to rest, hubby go soccer wif his kaki again. left me&yoyo.... poor yoyo, las nite evy1 come home so late, she worried till she cry... the world's No.1 yangor dog!!!

Went to Fiona's house on Fridayto get the patch for my com. had a great talk with her, felt better... alot better. =0) ok, let her off on the steamboat issue....

saturday hubby blow his top at me again. =( so upseting. but this time he caught himself, give a cheeky smile n say sorry. at least now he find out for himself n not say i petty... hope evytime can b like tat.

so happy, las nite wear clothes i like, hubby din make a fuss n say i look pretty. yeah!!!! (^__^) 1/04/2004 12:07:00 PM
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